Could use support and advice

[BL42]

WOS,

I met with the lawyer for a two hour consultation, so I've learned a lot. Though it's good to be informed, it did become clear to me that divorce is "not an easy way out" and nobody really benefits from it. I needed a few hours to process everything and did not sleep well.

How do you feel now about the lawyer consultation after taking time to process? Do you now understand where you stand in terms of custody, assets, child and spousal support?

Nevertheless, I would not be surprised if there is one. At least it would explain some of what is happening. I have tried to find evidence of an affair but haven't found anything so far.

Would an affair be a deal breaker for you? Others would agree there is at least an EA if not PA in the vast majority of situations here...even those in which the poster initially swears up and down it's not possible. That you wouldn't be surprised is interesting. Why is that?