Another year in life of

[Dawn70]

Mind you, I have the most PG profile on all the platforms. I never dress provocatively, i say nothing even slightly flirty on the profile. Across all platforms.

Maybe it is great for other women. But I know many who are encountering what I am now. It’s significantly worse post covid. And it really does make you feel gross

I TOTALLY get what you are saying, G! Some dudes (note I did NOT say ALL dudes) just don't even have a filter when it comes to talking to women. I have said here before that I'm a fat girl and I know I'm not the type most would be attracted to and that is ok because we all have preferences, but I don't know if men just think all fat girls are so desperate that they'll fall for that icky gross behavior or what. When I tried OLD, I had honest pics on my profile that showed me as I really am and I had an honest profile, not flirty or sexual. I got MANY lewd comments and things that guys tried to play off as "just being flirty" but that were truly just downright repulsive. I continue to be thankful and blessed that I stuck with it long enough to find Sparky. He thinks I'm beautiful just as I am, but more importantly, he was very respectful from our very first interaction. He can be flirty and a little inappropriate now because we're together, but he wouldn't have done it before we were a solid couple and I so appreciate that.