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He texted you that after one dinner?!? Definitely a nail in the coffin. Good to know your intuition is working well.

I can totally relate to how you’re feeling. That’s been my head space as well. It all feels like too much effort. At the same time, I can’t really imagine myself being a “dog lady” for the rest of my life either. I also think it could be that I’m just tired in general. Maybe once we are into the endemic phase of this virus and things have returned to “normal”, I will have more energy to invest in my social life.

Don’t lose heart. I know you have been single a lot longer than you wanted but you are still only 40 (41?) years old. You’ve got lots of time. You will meet your person eventually. (((HUGS)))

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Originally Posted by Ginger1
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I think someone really needs to wow me now.

LH and BL live close by don’t they…

Hahaha! LH lives 6 hours away. And he is into the skinny bleach blonde tan types. NOT me.

BL might live close.

Well he just texted me this : “my bed is so lonely. Goodnight !”

He just put the nail in that coffin.
Sigh. I’m just going to stick with being the dog lady

completely creepy.


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Originally Posted by Ginger1
She is a wise one

At 10 she was wise so at 14 - OMG

Listen to her now for sure.


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Originally Posted by Ginger1
Hahaha! LH lives 6 hours away. And he is into the skinny bleach blonde tan types. NOT me.
Uuuum your forgot fake boobs and they can have their own hair color lol. Board; just so you know this rhetoric she's is spewing is capricious and arbitrary. I have dated women of all shapes, hair colors, and skin tones.

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Originally Posted by LH19
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Hahaha! LH lives 6 hours away. And he is into the skinny bleach blonde tan types. NOT me.
Uuuum your forgot fake boobs and they can have their own hair color lol. Board; just so you know this rhetoric she's is spewing is capricious and arbitrary. I have dated women of all shapes, hair colors, and skin tones.

You have a clear physical type and you do not, come on now. Nothing wrong with it though.

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I think everyone has a type.

You act like I only date bleach blonde floozies who go to the tanning salon.

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Originally Posted by LH19
I think everyone has a type.

You act like I only date bleach blonde floozies who go to the tanning salon.


I would say roughly 75%

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OMG. That is so ridiculous.

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I was about to suggest you are for some reason passing by the nice guys and only feel attraction with the jerks. Then this happened.

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Well he just texted me this : “my bed is so lonely. Goodnight !”

What the actual F. Well at least the Fox thing never came into play as this behavior is right out of the NBC, CNN, MSNBC playbook.

I can only come back to where I started. THIS IS OLD. It just is over and over and over again. It’s these kind of misfit toys at least 75% of the time. It just is. I’d also listen to your daughter and your inner voice. Focus on friends and just doing things. You gave the OLD another 6 month try. It is what it clearly has showen itself to be.

Really did enjoy your LH intel though. The clues keep adding up. smile


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Great job G giving Don a reason to tell for the millionth time how bad OLDing is for everyone.

Big ups!

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