(((((((((LL)))))))))))) My H once made a remark that that I was never happy. He said, the only thing that he ever wanted to do for me was PROVIDE. Is that the only thing that a man thinks makes him a good H? There is so much more to the R!
My H accused me of not being supportive or happy when he got his realestae license. I thought I was being supportive by typing his papers ,doing his spread sheets, and going w/him to take pictures of houses that were for sale. I guess I should have taken him out when he got the license, but I didn't.
The truth is no one ever made a big deal of my accomplishments as a child. I didn't realize I was doing the same thing to H. I always make a big deal of S's accomplishments.I think that is because I knew what it felt like to go without those encouraging words when I was younger.
