Yikes. I think I would think the same thing about that guy. WTH is wrong with people?? It’s one thing to roll the dice and decide not to get vaccinated. It’s another thing to then end up in hospital but then have the audacity to treat people that way. Seriously deranged. Pretty sure that guy would be a big risk to others healthy as well.
I don’t blame you for being nervous and scared. It is a scary situation and emotionally taxing, to say the least. You know your limits. There is no shame in recognizing that you may not be up for it and do other work. I’m sure any work you do as a nurse is helping the situation in one way or another.
Good luck on your date. I’d definitely be cautious knowing where he works. The guy who was threatening your colleagues is probably an avid consumer of the “information” they broadcast.
RE: worrying about your move being derailed if things work out. I wouldn’t worry about that too much. Life works in mysterious ways. Your plans could change in many different ways. Trust that things will work out in the end. (((HUGS)))