Originally Posted by BL42
Originally Posted by ScottB
A couple more things; if you don’t want to date someone who has kids, then don’t. That’s simple. We each get to make those kinds of choices. Because you have kids isn’t relevant, you do you and go for what you want.
I agree w/this. If it's a strong preference or requirement for you than do it, but just know it's going to limit the pool to some extent (especially at our age). I like kids and am open to the possibility of meeting a woman with them.

I should point out that I agree as well. I think it is hypocritical a bit "You can't have kids but you better accept mine." But yes, if it is a strong preference or requirement then so be it. My above answer was related to what BL42 points out, that you will potentially be eliminating a fairly large pool of women, and potentially some really good matches.


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