My daughter cried as she went to bed on Christmas Eve because she was sad it was split - that sucked. I just tried to tell her it was okay to be sad and was with her in it.
That's tough. I'm sure it'll get better over time. Glad it went well overall.
Originally Posted by ScottB
This month I’m doing a spiritual retreat next weekend and then two weeks later going to FL for a weekend. End of Feb I’m taking the kids to Park City.
Sounds like some good plans, enjoy!
Originally Posted by ScottB
Emotionally I was good during the holidays, a little sad at the situation but I think it’s ok to be sad. Divorce is sad. All and all I’d say things are pretty good.
Definitely ok to be sad.
Originally Posted by ScottB
On the dating front, I think I had mentioned that I had decided to take a break but I was introduced to someone that I’ve been seeing. It’s been fun and I’m trying just to stay in the present with it. Anyhow, that’s about it for now. Happy New Year.
Good luck w/the new relationship. Makes sense to keep it light and have fun.
Sounds like things are going alright overall considering the situation. I get the sense while you're (understandably) still processing the sadness you're making progress and each year that passes will be better and better.
Keep it up, and keep us posted!
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21