WW: "I'm not going to let you make me feel guilty"

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I’Ve only tried Tinder and Bumble and I like Bumble better.

You might try Hinge. In my (admittedly limited) experience Tinder is cluttered with a lot of spam and trashy profiles, whereas Hinge has a lot more real/viable/normal-looking women.

A couple more things; if you don’t want to date someone who has kids, then don’t. That’s simple. We each get to make those kinds of choices. Because you have kids isn’t relevant, you do you and go for what you want.

I agree w/this. If it's a strong preference or requirement for you than do it, but just know it's going to limit the pool to some extent (especially at our age). I like kids and am open to the possibility of meeting a woman with them.