bttrfly,
Originally Posted by bttrfly
i think we're still ringing in 2022 this time, so maybe by 2023 it will be a passionate kiss for you with a wonderful woman ! smile
Yeah...I was already writing off tonight in that regard. With just 10 hours to go, ringing in 2023 right seems like the more reasonable target LOL

Originally Posted by bttrfly
I wanted to point something out: you don't have to do or say anything. Why? Because she's bringing herself to any new situation. The world is an incredibly small place. You know this. People in specific fields now each other. If there are only two main employers in her field in your area, there is definitely a very high probability that someone will clue in the new co-workers or management of her past experiences and questionable on-site decisions.
Probably true, and really if I'm practicing loving detachment then I shouldn't be wishing for let alone contributing to a negative outcome for her, but if I'm being honest with myself there's still part of me that's angry and hurt and would relish in some karma/revenge. Still have some work to do in that area.

Originally Posted by bttrfly
Just keep doing you. You're doing great!
Thanks! :-)


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21