I'm not waiting for anybody to help me out - never have been. All I have done is what people suggested I do and things spiraled out of control.
I get what you mean about the vows bit. The annoying thing is that I stood by her for 7 years prior to being married (only together 2 years), when she became seriously ill.
I just need to figure out the next steps forward now that I have relocated. Big Challenge.
Chin/Chest thing - doing it! As best I can anyway :-)
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.