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Man sorry to hear about your struggles but I tend to agree with BL. I don’t know if your a sports fan but there is a story I remember hearing that fits yours. The Boston Celtics are a historic franchise and have won like 25 championships. About 20 years ago they had a very bad team and we’re struggling mightily. The coach at the time Rick Petino was frustrated with the team and basically told them that the legends of the past (Larry Bird, Kevin McHale etc) were not going to walk through the door to help them out. They were on their own to get themselves out of the terrible situation.

Try to get a little better each day.

Man the “in sickness and in health” portion of the vows completely goes against our lizard brains. In the caveman days if the man was sick the woman and children were sure to perish so the woman would find a new man to ensure their survival. Thousands of years later and nothing has changed.

Chin up and chest out!