Leaving the letter for h seems to have been a good idea though I do hate the fact that things change without any words or discussions. It's just another phase in the cycle is what keeps screaming in the back of my head..he knows you are truly pissed of and tired and though doesn't want to admit it is doing some little things to assure you stay around.
Does it all fall into the "too little too late" category? at this point who knows...I'm not a real fence sitter and woulnd't easily be swept away by some other man but I do feel the need to have some important discussions about us now and then and they only seem to come in the form of fights that make matters worse no matter how I approach the "argument"
