Dr Laura's book is not for me. I'm well aware of what a man needs and I'm glad to offer.
I cook (real food unlike most women today) I clean (also unlike most women today) I do ALL the laundry (unlike most women today) I thank my h for providing for us (unlike most women today) I offer to please my h (unlike most women today) and he turns me down (unlike most men today) I compliment him on a regular basis, tell him to relax...
Do I really think it would be different with some other guy? of course there would be other negatives but perhaps another guy would be a person instead of the paycheck h seems to want to be.