Thanks for sharing your opinion LH and Steve.

Actually it does not really bothers me if she replies or not and so far I only greet or bid farewell when she happens to be around when I am leaving the house and such. Never go all the way to look for her to do that.

I was only thinking if it would be seemed as an act of smoothening because if it would, I would rather drop it all.

Recently, I hosted some closed friends that knew about the stitch over for festive gathering. Surprisingly, she joined in the session with us. And started to host everyone like how she used to be. Then halfway through, she went out for a while and after she came back, she sat down and drank with us.

My friends were puzzled. One of them text me the next day asking if everything's gotten back to how it was? I just laughed it off and shared with him nothing had gotten better. It's like the the Matrix. To her, I am the red pill while everything else is the blue pill 😁

To me, I also see a pattern that she always get into these "Ramp up Public Relation Strokes" with my family members or friends every time post mentioning divorce.

Last edited by ToSmile; 12/23/21 08:33 AM.

M:38 W:38
T:14 M: 12
S:9 S:6
BD: 07/18
W Moved out: 5/19
W Moved in: 7/19
D draft received: 12/19