I've not written about it in some time, but I think that in some cases that us "LBS" are considered the "property" of the "WS" - and undoubtedly the other way around - and signs of moving on or changes can be upsetting. Perhaps another topic though.
Possibly. Another, not mutually exclusive possibility is that they have this story in their head about how the divorce will go and what the LBS will do, like they are the puppet master and we the marionettes. When the LBS inevitably deviates from the pre-conceived plan, the WS/MLCr gets rightiously indignant.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
