Originally Posted by kml
Wow - just saw a doorbell video posted under the title “when your husband is too sick to go on the family trip you planned” - the video shows him kissing his mistress as she leaves the house! I guess a doorbell camera could be a good place to look if you suspect an affair, huh?
Yeah - I know my xW was very paranoid about the cameras here - to the point of comedic effect at times post bomb-day. I have one video of her crawling across the office floor to search my desk trying to stay out of shot. It ends with her getting up and scowling because the papers she was looking for I packed in my briefcase that day to keep them safe crazy

Originally Posted by kml
Trying to find someplace to donate the cans of anchovies and other food my son and I can’t or won’t eat.
I don't know if you recall my "clean out the freezer" adventures when I was first alone here. I'd pull something out of the freezer or pantry and that would be dinner. I did make an exception the day I defrosted old paint brushes that had been stored in the freezer for some reason laugh Think of it as a challenge to find something to use up those ingredients with. Anchovies on pizza are nice, they are also a component of Caesar salad or could be fried for breakfast like kippers. Perhaps the wee birds in your neighbourhood would appreciate some gluten based snacks.

(((kml))) - glad you are mindfully healing and taking the time for it. You were privileged to spend some time with a wonderful and complex man who cared very much for and about you.


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