]It's hard for me to fathom how drawn out this is if you want it to happen. How often is it said on here "it takes 2 to marry but 1 to get divorced", and mine seemed to go through with reckless abandon even though I didn't want it.
It's mind blowing how one person can control the process. My stbxh moved out almost 3 years ago, has a girlfriend and everything. I've been trying to get divorced for 2 years which is ridiculous.
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If you had a pre-trail with the judge who essentially said how she would rule, what else can your husband do?
It seems so bizarre and has to be frustrating for you. Sorry :-/
He can refuse to settle. I can't make him sign only a judge can do that. He's already made the judge angry so it's not in his best interest to go to trial. I don't have the money to take him back to court so I have to wait him out. I'm feeling better today because I'm going to "drop the rope". If he wants to stay married we will stay married since I've got temporary orders.
