The divorce that won't end

[BL42]

It's hard for me to fathom how drawn out this is if you want it to happen. How often is it said on here "it takes 2 to marry but 1 to get divorced", and mine seemed to go through with reckless abandon even though I didn't want it.

If you had a pre-trail with the judge who essentially said how she would rule, what else can your husband do?

It seems so bizarre and has to be frustrating for you. Sorry :-/