CW - I was afraid you'd say this. I'm 100% okay with what the judge proposed but he isn't so now I wait.
Originally Posted by kas99
This might be working for him but it's not for me.
It sounds like you expect asking for another court date will mean another postponement on his side and more wasted money on your side--how unfortunate. Sometimes motions to recoup costs are an option if the holds-ups appear to be on one side.
If the status quo isn't working for you, the burden's on you to make a change. If you don't feel asking the court for another date's going to help, the alternative is to offer your XH sweeter terms. That probably doesn't feel right or fair, but in the end it's economics. If it's going to cost you $X to drag this out, and offering 20% of $X gets him to sign..
The kids loving you and 2 out of 3 wanting to live with you is a huge win.
