Hi Kass, if you are consistently nudging it forward at the usual court pace and you can accept what the judge proposed, I’d expect it to wrap up without much further ado from your side. If you both prefer what you have now, I’d expect it to remain unless/until one of you wants to remarry in 5-10yrs when being already married becomes an obstacle.
CW - I was afraid you'd say this. I'm 100% okay with what the judge proposed but he isn't so now I wait. This might be working for him but it's not for me. I get it isn't up to me unless I want to go into debt (I don't). The kids hate him and this isn't helping his case but oh well I guess he'd rather burn down the village than do the right thing. UGH
