Married 28 years, he told me he wanted a divorce Mar 2019, discovered the OW in Nov 2019 and I filed the next day. He ignored everything and we were NC so I had to hire a new attorney. I've had 10 court dates over 18 months and I'm still not divorced.
My pre-trial was Nov 3rd and her ruling was reasonable but he doesn't agree so now I wait. I'm out of cash, have a temporary support agreement and if he wants to stay married then we will stay married.
I am however fretting over how much it will cost when he does decide to finish this.