Re the last name thing, my STBXW wants to keep my last name because of S5, I think that's totally reasonable if I'm honest and doesn't bother me. Also, if she stays with OM, its a bit of a F U that she's still kept something of mine! Jokes....mostly
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"