Do you ever get days that are just not perfect, you know late start, kids not fully well, things out of control. Well this morning was a little bit of that, s8 had a fever yesterday and felt unwell, s6 was just overly emotional and cried about everything. H was picking them up this morning, S8 wasnt feeling well, didnt want to go,S6 found some sweets and ate them, i dont really have any sweet stuff at home, but with the festivities these sweets seem to be appearing at home after every event. So h arrives, S6 suddenly turns crazy, S8 sobs and runs into his bedroom. I get blamed for all of it, that they spend all of their time playing on ipads, eat sweets etc. I get a really long txt message about this, how unhealthy that is and blah blah blah.
I dont always agree with Hs parenting and the fact that on a school days s6 is allowed to play xbox in the morning before school, of the fact he will buy them fanta or anything else of sort. Do i complain? No, not once have i said a word.
I wont see the boys until Thursday now, which makes me sad, however im working long hours whilst i can and then we are flying out to see my family for the holidays.
Could i have been more organised this morning, possibly, its been a very long week and its Sunday, kids were up in the night and we all rolled out of bed late. I frankly dont care what he thinks about my parenting, i just felt it was uncalled for and i dont want someone bringing this negativity into my life constantly. Just feeling sorry for myself
