Well, CMM has declared he wants to take the drugs tomorrow. Can’t wait until Friday. Just wants it to be over. Waiting for the medication delivery now. Not sure I would make the same choice at this stage but I’m not in his body, experiencing his discomfort.
Wow I can’t even imagine - just all,of it. What he’s going through, what you are. His family (whichever are still in his life) and his friends. While I have not formed an opinion on this, other than I can’t ever imagine it being for me, is he really at that point? When I envision this I think, bed ridden, no or very little quality of life, in shear agony. Not just a somewhat quick decision to not wait any longer. Christmas is near 10 days away. But I’m not there, I’m not in is shoes. Just because I would not choose this does not mean he should not. It just really is unnerving to even think about, especially at this point.
I suspect you are thinking somewhat the same but allowing him to decide, which I also understand. But should you maybe not try to provide some guidance? It’s not like a window of opportunity will close. The meds will still be there on Thursday. He can still use them in the future. Perhaps he needs some help and suggestions at this point. Because from what you’ve told us, this does seem premature. Deciding now may not yet be the time does not mean he can’t change his mind another on day.
I’m so sorry for CMM having to be in such a position as well as you KML. I hope it all works out for the best.
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