Joe. great thoughts here! Well done. As the anniversary of my BD looms (12/23) I am again in a weird place with my W and MR. I get like this almost every year at this time, wondering if I did the right thing by fighting so hard to save everything. Truth is I was extremely unhappy prior to BD myself, something that I forgot the minute I found the messages between my W and OM.
So I think today I will allow myself to really fully experience the emotions I am dealing with. Just sit with them and not try to fight them. Not even really try to understand them but acknowledge what the feelings are and just let them be. That's my gift to myself today.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
