Drh, sorry man. Yeah, the WAS usually has their own "version" of things. I don't blame you at all for saying what you said. If nothing else it shows her that you will not be snowed by her characterization of things. I will say, be careful here. Because WWs in particular will go scorched earth to "justify" their actions. False accusations are very very common in this kinds of things. In order to save face she may "invent" abuses to prove that she was "right" in what she did. The easiest one is always emotional abuse. That is why I am very cautious anytime that accusation is thrown about. The way emotional abuse is characterized nowadays anytime a couple has a disagreement one could claim emotional abuse. It waters down true emotional abuse, but do not be surprised if she starts leveling charges like that to justify her abandonment. She knows deep down that what you said to her is the truth.

Also, document everything you just claimed here. Get a calendar specifically to record days you have the kids, and the days they are with her. Write down on the day when drop off and pickups occur. Be meticulous.

As far as the blocking of mutual friends. Not surprising at all. When my wife went wayward, I was absolutely SHOCKED at how readily she was willing to discard people in her life. She even on New Years Eve didn't attend a get together at our best friends' house. She claimed she wasn't "feeling" well. However, I believe she was engaging with the loser OM while we were gone. He had nothing else going on I am almost sure and she wanted to stay home and communicate with him. But her willingness just to set aside people that she felt wouldn't be supportive of what she was doing was astounding.

Glad to see you moving forwardw with your life. Keep on moving forward!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018