Brief update...

It's been mostly quiet though WW is telling me "I left YOU not the kids and I have 50/50 custody."

I told her I'm part of the family, that you can't take me out the equation and say this when a family includes me, the marital home, the kids, the pets, the furnishings and the lifestyle.

I told her she left the marital home, which by extension includes the things that make up a home, so she did abandon the family.

She took up residency with another man and his family and so his home, kids, pets, furnishings and lifestyle became her home, kids, pets, furnishing and lifestyle.

She said I'm laughable and forgives me for my "tunnel vision."


Well, when you look at a telescope the wrong way you will only see a small fraction of what you would ordinarily see.

We all know that logical arguments don't work with a wayward, however I thought it was worth pointing out to her once that she left the family not just me.

As it is, i have my oldest child six days a week. She does duty visits to her mother on Friday. I have my youngest almost 60% of the week.

I also found out she blocked some mutual friends on FB who've been friends of ours for over ten years. They were surprised because they never treated her any differently.

As it is, I'm moving on with my life and start university next month.

Last edited by Drh2001; 12/11/21 05:52 PM.