I don't have much to add, G, but I will just say I think you are fan-freaking-tastic and I hope you find what you deserve some day. (((G)))
Cadet, say it again louder for the people in the back! You are absolutely right.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids