BL! Are you a neighbor? I was “barefoot” in the sand and it was a “wild” time! And definitely between 2 piers on the beach.
I don’t want my dating experiences to be a discouragement. It’s always been a little harder for me. For years I had no help with my D and I have majority custody. Schedules often didn’t align. Literally only in the past year has my D become comfortable with me going out at night ( with a 10pm curfew). I’ve always been in a different spot than most. I was divorced/separated at 28 with a baby! My timeline is so off everyone else’s. And of course, for years, I made un healthy decisions in partners . It’s also a different experience for men. You may get less dates than women, but if you treat a woman with respect, don’t act like a horny teenager, have a job and a personality, you will have success.
I used to have a very open heart and I could feel for guys. I don’t know if I changed, or it’s the guys I’m dating, but I think no one has seemed like a safe place yet. So I just don’t feel much. As for that one guy, it’s weird. He really doesn’t know much about me. He thinks I’m amazing because of my job and how I handle my stuff. He literally talks about himself all the time and doesnt realize it . He’s an EMT and police dispatcher. EMT’s have this weird thing going for them. They think they are some sort of super hero’s . It’s weird. I digress. But the level of the way he likes me doesn’t coincide with what he actually knows about me .
And thank you. Haven’t found the good guy with depth and comfort in their own skin to know what they want yet. Most are just discovering life after divorce. And many of those are going for the ego stroke ( like a poster on newcomers). Maybe I’ll have some luck in my 60’s? Hahaha!
