His biggest concern for me: that I hadn't let go of him yet. Well, after yesterday I have been able to decide for myself that I am certainly ready.
I finally let him go.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
I have decided to proceed with the divorce and the further search for housing. If he comes closer, OK for me, if he doesn't, then I can continue on my own perfectly.
Well done!
I am proud of you my friend. You are walking a most wonderful and enlightened path. Compassionate and forgiving. I can see how at peace you are.
I am very happy you are receiving so many answers, from H and yourself. Unless I miss the mark, you are about to discover a whole lot more answers from the latter (yourself).
Our deep answers come when we are most at peace.
(I get giddy at some of the things that come to me. Things that are all around us, yet we weren’t ready to see. Ah, that subjective reality.)
Originally Posted by Eagle3
As you say DnJ: Just listen, validate, and H keeps filling in more and more details. Dig for patience my dear.
This is what I'm doing and it feels the right thing to do.
When we get all our cars - physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual - all lined up and moving along together; life is pretty fine. Great actually.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
I understand, even more, I see through it now.
Precisely. We all require a certain level of understanding to let go and move forward. It’s kind of amazing when the pieces click into place.
Keep doing what your doing. You so got this Eagle.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
