It just came out of left field with this guy. One minute talking about how he was looking forward to our dinner Friday night and then a text comes through that actually started off with “hey, it’s not you!” He needs to be feeling more before he takes it to the next level. Ummm, is dinner the next level? It was nice to have someone who didn’t treat me sexually right off the bat. Oh well.
Ginger, I'm sorry to hear that.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
This other guy who worships me keeps asking for another chance. He wants me in his life anyone he can have me apparently. I hate hurting his feelings, but I don’t feel it.
If you're sure you're not feeling it, there's nothing wrong with saying NEXT. As you say, romantic partners have to add to our lives. I don't need insane chemistry but I want some chemistry, too.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Thanks for the support. I really am disheartened and worn out . The holidays aren’t helping
I've admitted I'm worried about being alone on Christmas Eve and am making plans to have a full house and people to cook for. What could you do to make your holiday more fulfilling?
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I’m hoping once my knee recovers I can get back to focusing on some of my hobbies. Winter hiking is something new I want to try.
Winter hiking is an AWESOME hobby! You get to go to spots that are usually crowded and enjoy them all to yourself, as long as you are prepared for soft snow (snowshoes), hard snow (crampons), and have enough layers to thermally regulate. If only you lived nearer! I look forward to hearing about your adventures.
