“Plus you have a J.O.B.!!! And you’re bringing the (unmentionable word) to HIM! “. Read in the voice of Mojo Nixon. He said this to me once backstage, after I told him the story about going to see my first post-divorce boyfriend in Northern California. He couldn’t imagine that any man wouldn’t be thrilled to have a self-sufficient gainfully employed woman who was bringing the you-know-what to him!
Girl - you have SO much going for you! Maybe you’ve got a bad picker, but this isn’t about you not being enough.