I hit $15k in legal fees today which is depressing since I have $800 to my name.
Any chance stbxh might be on the hook for covering some or all of your legal costs? In my states the more monied spouse is responsible for contributing some money towards the others' lawyer fees, especially if they're the ones needlessly delaying the process.
Originally Posted by kas99
The kids and I are struggling with life. He was making me physically sick so I know I'm better off but it's hard. I have a lot to be grateful for and I try to remember that this could have been a lot worse.
Sorry you and the kids are struggling. Hang in there...
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21