I hit $15k in legal fees today which is depressing since I have $800 to my name. The good news is opposing counsel responded back promptly which means stbxh is actually ready to finish this. I don't what changes he wanted but should know very soon. I wonder sometimes if I made a mistake not trying to mediate but I don't think it would have worked because he's lost his mind. It does irritate me that he's got a 2nd income lined up via the OW but I try not to think about it.
The kids and I are struggling with life. He was making me physically sick so I know I'm better off but it's hard. I have a lot to be grateful for and I try to remember that this could have been a lot worse.
