Hey Galaga, I just wanted to post one more time, and offer the support from the forum. I know you still log on and occasionally check.
So let me say this, I am truly sorry. In no way shape or form was I trying to belittle or down play what you went through with your father. I read it wrong and reacted. If it helps, you did teach me I need to ask more questions and get more facts before I react. So I do appreciate you helping me learn that lesson.
I also hope you are continuing to keep the drinking under control and going to group and your IC.
I promise if you come back I will stay out of your threads. I know I will be a trigger, and I know you felt judged and this wasn’t a safe place anymore. It does bother me that I may have gotten in the way of someone who truly needed help and support and I ran them off. That’s completely on me, and that has nothing to do with you.
Anyway, I know i keep saying I’ll stay off your thread, but I have seen you logging in and not posting, so I am hoping that maybe you’ll see this and this will help you get back on the saddle so to speak.
If not, I understand and please again accept my apology. And know no matter what path you choose regardless of your wife comes back or not, the pain will ease. Things will get better. But I do hope you allow the other posters on the site to help guide you through the process.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
