Buttrfly, DNJ,,,thank you for taking the time to reply. I’m not surprised Buttrfly that your H married his OW. I would be surprised if it was a happy union however. I think this is the path my H and his OW will take too,,,, they will marry eventually and one of them will have to leave their location and move to the partners location. I’m sure that will be my H. He has been the one to sacrifice everything for this relationship with a single OW. I expect this will happen pretty quick now. It’s too far to drive to see each other and now you need a vaccine to get on a plane. Both my H and his OW are anti-vaxxers in the extreme. So my guess is my H will quit his job and drive out there with his stuff to start a living together life with her. Either that or it’s all over for that relationship unless they get vaxxed and I don’t see that happening either.
DNJ,,, thanks for reminding me how broken these relationships are. It’s easy to think it’s all wonderful in their fantasy life. I would hate if it was all wonderful. I do know it’s not though and have known for a couple of years but still,,, the relationship carries on. How? What is the glue that keeps them together? I M passed the stage of wanting a restoration of my marriage. I know it would never work despite the fact that I would LOVE to hear my H says he regrets what he did. Why is that important to me, I wonder? I don’t want a restoration but I want to hear him say ‘I messed up’.
