I assume since you refuse to acknowledge if you are Tom H or another poster that must be it.
We are all human, we all make mistakes. We all the made the same mistake you made and are making. Theres no fake change you can make to get your spouse back. That there is a magic bullet to allure your wife back.
That point of this forum is to save yourself. Your spouse didn’t decide one day to cheat on you for fun. It’s to support you as you go through the motions of figuring out what went wrong. To be the best you, you can be and they hopefully re attracts your wife. And if not, you are the best happiest version of yourself and that helps your future relationships.
Good luck in the future.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
