Ginger! You finally have a thread again. Nice to catch up.
Props on leaving the dysfunctional partner. I'm sorry you feel ambivalent about the people you meet. If you're good solo, why do potential partners have to "really come with something to offer"? Suppose they offer no more than a friend, but are good in bed, and you slowly connect and care more. Could it be that simple?
Not that I'm in any place to judge, and I just went through my own brief hoe phase, lol.
