Again a few quick things and I’m going to be blunt
Are you Tom H? I asked before and didn’t get an answer. And I see another poster is wondering now too.
Most people that come here only fit into a few categories. They came to late into the process, they don’t listen to the DB rules, or there marriage is already over and has been and they haven’t accepted it.
There is also a group of people who do have the opportunity to take their spouse back but choose not to because they have found themselves and realize they don’t want to be in a marriage where affairs, lies, and deceit have happened.
Your situation isn’t really different. I thought as LH did maybe yours way different. No, your wife is doing what she needs to do to get away as painlessly as possible for herself. I understand you’re a lawyer but that doesn’t mean everything in life is up for debate, compromise, or done your way. I suggest looking into your heart and not your mind.
Just my 2 cents.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
