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I’m open to advice for my situation.

I think you are open to advice that fits your narrative.

I’ve advised many clients giving the same advice for a contract dispute and a criminal case is foolish.

Your W had had an affair and at minimum is probably having an EA right now. On top of that she is asking for space from you. How is that different then most situations here?

I get the sense they advice here tries to be one size fits all.

Giving her the space she asked for and focusing on your kids and yourself is the recipe for EVERY situation.

Every situation is different.

Just the minor details.

No one here has taken the time to see that.

Well if go back and look I said I thought you situation might be a little different but I am wondering now if your W isn't placating you because of your challenging personality.

Case In point. I’ve outlined my GAL multiple times but you harp on me saying I played Xbox once.

Yes Mac spinning class, Yoga and musicals are great but I was thinking maybe something that gets you out of your comfort zone.

How did following advice work for you?

I was late finding DB and I did reconcile for awhile. I tried to give you advice on what I wished I would have done but again because it doesn't fit with your narrative you completely shot it down.

How long has your wife been back?

I have been divorced for 3.5 years and the happiest I have been in the last seven years.

Most people who come here seemed to end up divorced.

Like Ginger said by the time you get here it's too late. It's like trying to turn around the Titanic when it's full steam ahead.

That’s not my goal.

Well I think that is obviously why you are here. Look you can sit it at home playing xbox hoping your W comes home or you can embrace the advice here and give her space she has asked for and GAL like a mad man. It's certainly your choice Mac.