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McRamone,

I have a few things to update, but I'm currently looking at other resources.

What are your updates? We can only help/advise if you share...

The boys are (for now) cool with everything. Of course with teens you can never be sure. I’ve asked it a couple of ways. I’ve been the primary care giver during this whole pandemic. I take them to school. I do fun things with them, I make they are on top of school. Teachers email me with issues. So really it’s more of the same. My W doesn’t have the flexibility with her job so it feel to me.

I’ve made it clear that they can talk to me about this and do regular check-ins.

Your teenage sons are "cool" with their mom moving out of the house? Seems unlikely. Good you're checking in with them and helping with school, but maybe they're burying their emotions? Make sure they're getting the support they need with the whole situation.