I’m also going to address the “impact “ to the kids.
The impact is honestly minimal of both parents stay peaceful and the kids are left out of the personal stuff.
Honestly, this has sukked more for me and my daughter. She’s a well adjusted 14 year old. Happy and healthy. I can’t honestly see any impact our divorce has had on her in the long run so far. She never knew us together, but she’s lived between the 2 houses, has lots of people who love her and her parents get along even if we don’t live together . She is very smart, thriving in school and thriving socially . No depression, just a snarky teenager, but a happy one, nonetheless .
I couldn’t have asked for a better outcome for her through all of this.
