I'm just flat out lonely, I have a lot of family and friends, but i miss having a family and someone to talk, joke, cook and just have fun with. Honestly, am I being pathetic or is this reasonable?
This is an 180 opportunity for you. Meet new friends. The ladies and sex will come in time. You must first be able to live alone. During the pandemic I went without sex for 10 months. Guess what? I didn't shrivel up and die.
Tell me more how she's overly flirting in the family home.
That's the thing, I'm not afraid of ending up alone, I know I'll find someone and be fine in the long run weather that's with her or someone else.
It's just been a long time since I had a real partner. We had been having sex until July, so its not just about the sex.
Regarding the overt flirting, it's mostly via Teams chats and calls with colleagues and cell phone on the evenings. Extra info: 2 years ago a friend of mine and colleague cheated on his wife with another colleague and ended up leaving his family for her. We had dinner with his x-wife and new wife a few times, back then, my W found his situation pathetic, first to dip your pen in company ink and not end things before realizing the relationship was over. Fast forward and her main site for meeting and frequenting new people is at work.
Until a year ago this was someone that walked in the door and left her cell phone on the counter top and would maybe check it for missed calls 2 times in an evening. Her parents and friends always called me if they needed to talk with her because she never bothered to carry her phone around. Now she's a social media junky and I assume obviously flirting on it as well since she's attached to it even while playing with the kids and cooking. You wanna talk complete 180's!? I just don't know this person.
