Confidence and arrogance are two different things.
No one took their ball and went home. We are all volunteers doing this to help. No point in stating what 3 other posters have, and some of us can only check every so often.
We all support in our own ways. Some are just more blunt than others. But no way wants to deal with entitlement mixed with arrogance.
I’m glad you’re in therapy. I think that’ll go a long way in making you be the best you, you can be.
You can’t control her, so control yourself. If you’re ok with her having her cake and eating it too, that’s your choice. However, what reason would she have to miss you if she can always just be around you and than be able to go back to her vacation rental. You can’t stop her from coming over, but you can control if you are there or available.
You haven’t posted here before have you? You kind of remind me of Tom H.
Last edited by JosephS; 11/17/2111:54 AM.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
