I have been on these boards for about 7 years. I can only think of two cases where there was absolutely no sign of OP being involved. So the odds are not in your favor but I keep thinking your case may be different.
Did you/do you have access to her phone? Meaning was the password unprotected or you knew it and could go into it whenever you wanted?
Unfortunately words don't mean anything right now. It's hard not to read into them.
Well there was an OP that kicked this whole mess off. So you are on point on that. For various reasons, he is not a long term solution nor is she likely boning him in her new apt. (I know nothing is guaranteed and I could be wrong.) I wish I could say more but there are a whole lot of other considerations that would make that somewhat tricky.
I didn't have access to her phone. it'd be chasing down an endless rabbit hole.
man, I am not doing great today. I just don't understand how we ended up here. I don't understand how she can effectively abandon our kids and then go silent. I just want to stop hurting.
