It [censored] because I want to try to stay positive, but everyone says don't focus on that.
Who is telling you not to stay positive?
I wasn't complete in my thought. I mean everyone says don't focus on the positive statements she makes like 'I don't' want to be divorced," "We can have a better M," "I love you"
I know to stay positive. I should have written I want to try to read positivity into what she is saying.
Originally Posted by LH19
I want to clarify, her main complaint is you give her too much space?
Her main complaint is that I don't articulate what I need from her. Or I make assumptions about how much space she needs (obviously before the move)
Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by McRamone
I didn't sleep well and my mind raced. I felt like all the worst stuff was happening. Like she immediately hooked up with some rando.
Highly doubt that's the case. You will experience catastrophic thinking for awhile
