McRamone, obviously I'm not helping here. You seem perturbed by my observations. And I'm not sure you are open to the ideas presented here. For instance, you question her being a walkaway..... Even though she's pushing for a separation. One thing someone told me early on in my sitch has always stuck with me. Wives do not need their own place to find themselves or to.work on the marriage. They need their own place to sleep with other men.
Good luck. I sincerely hope it all works out for you. That's why I post here to other LBSs. But I do think you are being a bit obtuse. Maybe it is because the truth is too hard to face? My final thought for you to mull over.
I’m sorry you feel that way. I get that you only see things a certain way and are trying to help people. But you are only focusing on one thing. You may say I’m ignoring the one thing.
I’m not sure where you get I’m not open to ideas. I am taking the GAL to heart, I am following Sandi’s rules, I am taking what people are saying. I read DB. I have not begged her not to move out, I haven’t pleaded with her or even tried to reason with her. Not sure what more you want me to do.
But yes. If you are going to insult me and my partner instead of helping. There are plenty of other good folks here.
