Wolf buddy all these years you still don’t understand validation lol.

Therapist: Wolf you stole the stapler from my desk!
Wolf: I understand you’re upset but I did not steal the stapler from your desk.

As for your GF it sounds like there are some control issues if she will only let you take the baby when it benefits her. Time to nip that in the bud.

Wolf your situation sounds horrible and I am really sorry. Just remember that bad runs don’t last forever and your situation will get better.