Wolfman moving forward2

[Wolfman]

Hello everyone. I hope everyone is doing well. Thanks for the input. A lot of you talk about “right-arguing”. I don’t understand, am I never allowed to give my side of things? If someone makes up lies about me am I just supposed to validate? Sorry I wasn’t raised that way, to sit back and just take things. Look the therapist asked me a question about the previous session and I was simply answering it to her. I am certainly not going to sit back when someone attacks my character. Maybe that’s something you all do, but I won’t allow it. I made sure I did not raise my voice at all!! I spoke firmly and that was it. When someone is attacking your character you all just validate the lies?? Anyway.

The therapist wrote a letter to my lawyers that she is recommending a forensic psychologist and she included in the letter that she believes there is parental alienation. That’s the up side. She gave this to my lawyers a week ago. The downside the lawyers have not reached out to me that they received the letter. I even emailed 2 of the lawyers in the firm that are handling my case and no response, that was 4 days ago. I am very disappointed with this firm, I feel like they just wanted my money and haven’t really fought for me at all. I am speaking with a new lawyer on Thursday. The therapist writing this letter is huge for me and my lawyers are nowhere to be found. Nothing, from them. Ugh. In the meantime the therapist had said that she was going to stop therapy with my d and I until after forensics. But in the meantime now I have t seen my d in 2 weeks. This life is terrible. The only bright spot in my life is my s and baby. Sometimes I feel like I just can’t take it. Some days I am just so depressed. I miss my d and miss being with my children all the time.

The gf has become super overprotective of the baby. She doesn’t want anyone touching him. She really doesn’t want anyone over the house. She has a schedule for when he feeds, sleeps and change his diapers. We can’t deviate from that or she gets mad. For example, if the baby is taking a nap and it’s been 3 hours since he ate last, she will wake him up from a nap to eat. Even if he is not tired she puts him down for a nap because it’s been 2.5 hours. Then he cries sometimes for 10-20 minutes. I wanted to take the baby out to the store with me the other day and she wouldn’t let me. She said it was cashing her anxiety me taking him out. But when she went to get her nails done I told her I was taking him out, she was ok with that. Whatever she reads online that’s what we have to do, and even though I have 2 kids already most common what I say she doesn’t want to hear.