On her feelings of privacy. I get that you think it's rubbish steve, but if I say that to her ...is that me dismissing her feelings about it? And these feelings are from way before the 'incident" Some of which I contributed to.
I never said to say it to her. In fact I think I specifically said I'm not saying to say it to her. But yes it is rubbish for anyone to suggest snooping on your spouse is worse than cheating on them. Or on the same level. Or even remotely in the same ballpark!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
